Event: Where have all the good men gone?


You just need to make the choice to take control of how, where and when you meet them.

It’s time to ‘Meet Differently’! Many women today have a very simple method for meeting men. They swipe left or they swipe right.

Some, have even decided to take a more relaxed approach and believe that the right guy will come along at the right time… queue universe!

Now don’t get me wrong I have nothing against serendipity and I’m not saying that you won’t find the love of your life this way.

I’m just saying…

How effective has this strategy been for you in the past?

Let me ask you these 3 questions:

  • Are you happy with the quality of the guys you are meeting and dating?

  • Are you happy to keep meeting the same type of guys, over and over?

  • Are you happy to waste time going on awkward dinner dates, drinks and undefined meet ups with the guys that say, “we should hang out sometime”

If you answered NO to all of these questions, then you have landed on the right page.

Let us show you how to effectively meet, engage and attract the right kind of men for you. However before we do that…

Remember this,

here is no magic bullet, or quick fix to meeting good, high quality men.

There are no secret bars or clubs where they hang out and hide from you, and I promise you this…


As part of our ‘Date Differently’ approach we are running a 1 ½ hour talk called ‘Where have all the good men gone?’

Join us at our Signature Talk for a glass of wine and some nibbles while we unpack the WHAT, WHERE and HOW of meeting high quality men!



The What

  • What’s the problem? Understanding our scarcity mentality

  • What does a high quality man look like, and is that what you want?

The Where:

  • Where to meet high quality men in real life

  • Understanding the different social environments and the type of men you might meet there.

The How:

  • How to think differently about meeting men – Key mindsets for success.

  • How to improve the chances of him approaching you – Practical strategies

  • How to effortlessly start a conversation with the guy you like without seeming too forward or needy.

Event Details

Tuesday 28th June 6.30pm-8pm


  • A glass of wine for your troubles

  • A selection of chips and dips

  • A chance to mingle with like minded women in the same boat as you


  • ​A pen and paper and an open mind



Bustle Studios

Level 1, 457 Elizabeth St
Surry Hills, NSW, 2010

Originally posted 2018-06-01 19:00:05.

1 Comment

  • “What Happened to All the Nice Guys?”
    I see this question posted with some regularity in the personals section, so I thought I’d take a minute to explain things to the ladies out there that haven’t figured it out.

    What happened to all the nice guys?

    The answer is simple: you did.

    See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He’d tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn’t feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the (other) guy that you were fucking treated you.

    At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were “just friends.” Besides, he totally wasn’t your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn’t know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.

    Eventually, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you weren’t dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren’t the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship. So, now, you’re single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and douche bags, you wonder, “What happened to all the nice guys?”

    You ignored the nice guy. You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, with physical intimacy. You laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive “just-a-” friend. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren’t really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you’re upset; or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he’d have to act more like the boyfriend that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an asshole than he ever wanted to be.

    Fact is, now, he’s probably getting laid, and in a way, your ultimate rejection of him is to thank for that. And I’m sorry that it took the complete absence of “nice guys” in your life for you to realize that you missed them and wanted them. Most women will only have a handful of nice guys stumble into their lives, if that.

    So, if you’re looking for a nice guy, here’s what you do:

    1.) Build a time machine.
    2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass.
    3.) Take a look at what’s right in front of you and grab ahold of it.

    I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don’t really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you.

    If you were five years younger.

    So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you’ve fucked yourself over. You’re getting older, after all. It’s time to excise the bullshit and deal with reality. You didn’t want a nice guy then, and you really don’t want one now. What you want from him is emotional support and his paycheck.


    A Recovering Nice Guy

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