Love in itself can already cause quite the headache to a lot of people.
Now, the topic of true love can be quite the messy affair, as even the most romantic of individuals can have a bit of a hard time zeroing in on the subject properly.
If you’re finding “the one,” you’re not entirely alone. In fact, in the United States, people have declared love as the top-most reason for why they marry – with making a commitment to last a lifetime and companionship being the other two top reasons. If not marriage, more adults are starting to cohabitate with partners, and 23-percent of married people in 2013 have actually been married before – leading to a resurgence of remarriage.
Finding Your True Love In Life: How Is This Possible?
One could consider the quest on how to find true love and happiness as perhaps one of the hallmarks of life. After all, it could be such a blessing to figure out just who, in this 7.5-billion population, is the right person for us to be with for the rest of our lives. Thankfully, the steps to finding your true love in life aren’t as hard as they seem to be.
However, they all do have caveats you have to consider before taking each step, as finding true love does need a fair degree of patience and determination. These are some of those steps:
Make sure you get to know yourself first
One of the most important aspects of finding true love is to start with yourself – and much of the process actually involves getting to know yourself and your personality. Make sure you always spend time trying to reflect on the way you think about things, make decisions, and evaluate yourself as a person.
This is because your self-reflection and self-image oftentimes have a lot to do with the kind of people you attract in your life. Why do you think you feel these things, and how will you feel in particular situations? The more you know yourself and your strengths and weaknesses, the better you can be as a partner for your one true love.
Assess and evaluate your expectations in every relationship
One of the most overlooked aspects of any relationship is that they often don’t work because of mismanaged expectations. If you ever start liking someone, or start getting close with someone, or simply start any form of contact with someone, be clear with yourself what your expectations are.
And if your expectations involve the person in an extremely personal way, such as when it comes to friendships and relationships, try to make sure you’re honest to them about these expectations as well.
Letting them know how you feel at least allows the both of you to engage in your endeavors from a more rational, more respectful point of view. This also at least lets you be clear on what your expectations are to a particular person.
Take the risk with dating other people
If you really want to find your one true love, sometimes there’s no other choice but to get yourself out there. For instance, if you have work from home and you don’t go out because you don’t “feel” like it, you’ll really have a hard time finding your true love.
Likewise, if you do have an office job but refuse to go out with your friends, you’ll also have a harder time finding the person for you.
If you really want to find the one, you’d have to take the risk and date other people.
This will also be a good opportunity for you to meet new people, encounter new and different personalities, have new experiences, and learn how to deal with new types of situations.
Patience is a virtue, and cherish the journey
If you don’t want to take the risk through dating, then you also need to accept the fact that you really will have to wait for The One to find their way to you. Or even if you do try dating and seem to “end up” with the “wrong” person, don’t take this as the sign of the Universe that there’s nobody out there for you.
Think of this as a journey that you should cherish and enjoy, as you’ll have just as much good moments as there are “sad” ones, and treat all sad moments as opportunities for you to learn and strengthen yourself.
Feel free to take a break, as there’s no rush
A lot of people think finding The One is a race against time. This is especially for those who just graduated, as some may feel that after getting their degree, it’s a race of either who becomes successful the fastest, or who gets their family the fastest. However, like your own personal development, finding your true love is a process that is gradual and is unique to you.
The Quest For True Love: Finding The One
With the above taken into consideration, it’s important to remember that the quest to finding true love perhaps has more to do with the journey than the destination. Finding that one person out of all the people in the world can seem like a challenge to some.
However, to those who are with the loves of their lives, it’s evident that the journey ought to be worth the while. Read the above and take these to heart, and assess which of these tips work best for your current situation. Remember, however, that the first step to finding your true love in life is to love yourself – as only by loving yourself and growing properly can you find and attract the kind of person that would be the one for you.
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