The Good,The Bad and The Vibrator: Can adult toys enhance your relationship intimacy?

Love. Intimacy. Relationships.

The secret to a lasting relationship is a topic that fills up shelves and shelves in book stores from fiction to self-help categories. You can spend your lifetime seeking for answers, talking to as many people from all walks of life, devouring hundreds of books on the subject and you will find that the many answers are just variations of each other. Trust, communication, respect.

Aside from that though, there is one other thing that plays a vital role – love making, i.e. sex.

In a culture of hookups and short flings, sex can either enhance a relationship or make it fizzle before it even begins. But one thing is certain, once sex comes into the equation, there is no undo button.

So why not make it an all-around experience for all parties involved? That certainly seems like a better, pro-active approach. Skirting around uncomfortable topics never does anyone good.

Mutual Pleasure Is The Key 

Sex to some may just be a casual thing. But in reality, it should involve more than just the physical aspect of joining bodies. It’s about vulnerability and entrusting yourself to another for that moment. Trust, communication, and respect.

It is worth noting that just because couples have regular sex it doesn’t automatically guarantee intimacy in relationships. What matters is having GOOD sex – that is mutually given and received; leaving both partners satisfied.

Being satisfied does not even necessarily mean that both partners orgasm. Wonders are told about simultaneous orgasms but it is not as easy to achieve.

In fact, there are a lot of couples that do not achieve orgasm, at least not in the traditional recognisable way. And that is fine.

The important thing is that both persons had fun in the act and really connect. A woman’s satisfaction, for example, is not dependent on orgasm alone.

It can be enhanced by psychological factors and emotional exchange during intercourse.

In short, the closeness of the personal relationship is more important than the frequency of sexual encounters or the number of orgasms.

Sex helps bond relationships further and creates a broader sense of intimacy in a loving relationship. These positive benefits often times trickle down to the physical, intellectual, emotional, and social aspects of one’s life too. So whether you are in a long-term relationship or you are in one that is just starting, it is an important thing to consider for your overall health.

 

Why Adult Toys?

The idea of adult toys whether for personal or couple use can be a bit daunting. But as society becomes more pleasure-positive, they have managed to come a long way towards becoming more mainstream.

First and foremost, experimenting with products for self-pleasure is a great way for getting to know yourself better: your likes and dislikes, what turns you on and what stimulates you best.

Having adult toys for couple use also has a number of benefits. For one, they lead to more communication. Choosing a toy or a number of toys that you could both use in your play inevitably makes you and your partner talk about what you want to buy and why.

It could be that you both want certain sexual desires addressed or you both would like to try something new. Whether you both walk into a physical store or order online, a conversation between the two of you is started.

For people with performance anxiety problems, adult toys can also take the pressure off. Some men would like to last longer or some women struggle with reaching orgasms from intercourse alone. Issues like these can be addressed with the use of adult products.

Admittedly though, the thought of introducing these types of things into your relationship dynamics can be intimidating. But it really doesn’t have to be.

Where to Start?

Start with something fun. Creative Kisses from Randy Fox, for example, is light, fun, and sexy. It is basically a card game with each card offering a unique type of kiss. Perfect for home dates. You can also get something to pamper your lover with.

The Lovers Travel Kit has everything you need for a sensual massage. If you are going on a trip soon, bring this with you. You can expect a lot of intimate moments in between sights and massages may just be the thing to make things more…interesting!

Adult toys and pleasure objects are a gateway to other things. They help widen your horizons, make things more exciting for you and your partner and above all, “spice things up”.

There is always something new to discover. As such, it goes without saying that they help strengthen intimacy. We can all agree that intimacy, both in and out of the bedroom, is essential in every healthy, loving, long-lasting relationship.

 

With the right attitude and the proper mindset, adult toys and pleasure products can enhance relationships in more ways than one.

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