You are reading this because you want to know the signs that your boyfriend doesn’t miss you.
You’re not even sure if he likes you anymore…
You’re not sure whether you should break up with him or keep on going because he could just be playing hard to get.
But even if you see the signs that he doesn’t miss you, doesn’t mean you need to break up. You can always improve the relationship! I’m just giving you the signs, you decide what you want to do with them.
He won’t text you back
You’ll send him a text:
- About your new clothing you bought at the mall
- Asking him how he’s doing
- Or send him a funny meme…
But he won’t get back to you even if he’s got nothing to do. You might even know that he’s watching an episode of Friends on Netflix alone and yet he still won’t reply to any of your texts!
If he does this once or twice, I wouldn’t worry too much. But if you notice that he’s ignoring you on a consistent basis, he doesn’t miss you at all.
On the other hand, if he’s at a party with his friends, I’d avoid texting him because you don’t want to be the clingy girl that all guys avoid and you can’t expect him to text back.
Let him have his own time with his friends.
He won’t video call you
When either one of you is away on a trip, he’ll never pick up his phone to Skype or FaceTime you. You are the one always putting in the effort to keep the relationship going.
If your guy actually missed you, he would never leave you to put in all the work even when he’s teasing you or playing hard to get.
You’ll even repeatedly ask him to call you on FaceTime and he’ll always reply with:
- I’m busy
- I can’t talk right now
- I’ve got to go
The key is that he won’t tell you how much he likes you before he tells you that he’s just too busy to talk. A guy that really missed you would say:
- I love you honey, but I’m busy
- I can’t wait to take you out tonight, but you know how much work I need to do
He’s constantly in a bad mood around you
We all get into bad moods. We are all humans. What I’m talking about is him being constantly in a bad mood around you.
When he’s with his friends or other girls, he seems to be having the time of his life, but you just seem to put him in a deep, depressive mood.
You’ll meet up for lunch, but after just a few minutes he’ll have to leave because “he needs to clear his mind” or “get some work done” and you’re left wondering if there’s something wrong with you.
But don’t worry! There’s nothing wrong with you, be strong and remember: you are an attractive girl and not every guy has to like you.
Guys do the same thing when they see signs that a girl doesn’t like them: they get into a depressive state because they feel unlikable, but that’s never the right thing to do.
You are a good person and it might be time to move on to someone that appreciates you.
He doesn’t care if you spend time with other guys
If he really liked you, he wouldn’t be happy when other guys spend time with you. Most guys get angry when their girl is being too friendly with other guys.
But because this guy doesn’t miss you, he won’t care even if:
- You tell him that you’re having lunch with a guy-friend
- You send him a picture of you with another guy
- You get approached by other guys
If this is really the case, your relationship is over and there’s a high chance that he’s cheating and just wants you to go away. Move on and find a better guy.
He won’t talk about going on dates anymore
At the beginning of your relationship he used to take you out on many dates and even had a great time with you, but now, you don’t even seem to get him interested:
- He won’t ask you out
- He won’t talk about the fun dates you had together
- He’ll switch the conversation if you try bringing up dating
You might even notice your boyfriend only using you for sex and even the sex isn’t that good. If your boyfriend actually missed you, he’d enjoy spending time together in general.
So what do you do in this situation?
You should leave him because he doesn’t miss you and is just too scared to tell you that he doesn’t want you anymore. You deserve better.
But always keep in mind that you might have been giving off the signs that you don’t like him and that’s what’s turning him off! So always be self-aware and make the right decisions.
So the verdict ?
So I’ve given you 5 signs that your guy doesn’t miss you, but what if you only see one or 2 signs? Is that enough to end the relationship?
I don’t think so, but you’ll always have to rely on your intuition and judgment. However, if you are seeking more information on saving relationships I urge you to read Here are 8 ways to prevent cheating in your relationship.
But whatever you decide to do, don’t let yourself feel guilty. If this guy is not worth your time, just let him go and don’t look back.
If you think that he likes you, but you’re going through a rough patch, don’t worry: arguments and fights happen even in the best relationships.
Focus on building the love, not guilt tripping:
- Be clear about what you want
- Tell your partner about how you feel
- Make sure you are not giving any signs that you don’t like him
- Don’t flirt with other guys to make him jealous
- Don’t look depressed whenever you see him
Either way, I hope this post has helped you out and I trust that you’ll make the right decision!