Why Are Men So Afraid To Commit? #askRenee

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A: We can all recognize the uneasy feeling that creeps up on us (and it’s usually when it’s too late and we have already fallen) , that moment when it becomes a little obvious that his distance is growing  along with the void and unanswered questions between you two. So why is it so common for men to run and want to avoid a serious commitment? Here’s a few quick reasons why :

1: He’s scared of change 

2: He’s afraid to get hurt or be vulnerable

3: He’s not ready to settle down just yet as that signifies a different time in his life

4: He feels like committing will mean he loses control

5: He wants to play the field and likes the chase 

6: He’s not in love yet 

7: He doesn’t want to repeat the past mistakes or his parents mistakes

8: He wants his freedom and to not feel trapped

9: He doesn’t feel set up enough to carry the responsibility of being the head of a relationship

10: His career and dreams as his main priority right now 

At the end of the day we can’t force someone to stay and nor should we! If a man really wants to be with you then he will , it really is as simple as that . Timing is important but also make sure you aren’t selling yourself short and dating the right type of man for you ( i.e. : someone who wants the same things as you ) .

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